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		<title>When worlds collide&#8230;  Important dialogs can begin if we let them</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2014 11:12:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Chery Gegelman</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[One of the parts of expat life that I looked forward to the most is living on a compound with people from all over the world.  …People of diverse races and religions and values and personal histories living next to each other as neighbors… Last week  I shared a post with my friends &#8211; including some [&#8230;]]]></description>
					<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the parts of expat life that I looked forward to the most is <span style="color: #ff6600;"><a title="My dream of expat life: Sesame Street" href="http://consultgiana.com/turning-unwanted-change-into-an-adventure/"><span style="color: #ff6600;">living on a compound with people from all over the world</span></a></span>.  …People of diverse races and religions and values and personal histories living next to each other as neighbors…</p><img width="760" height="505" src="https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/iStock_000004963003Small-760x505.jpg" class="featured-image wp-post-image" alt="When Worlds Collide, Important Dialogs Can Begin If We Let Them" srcset="https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/iStock_000004963003Small-760x505.jpg 760w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/iStock_000004963003Small-300x199.jpg 300w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/iStock_000004963003Small-200x133.jpg 200w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/iStock_000004963003Small-518x344.jpg 518w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/iStock_000004963003Small-250x166.jpg 250w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/iStock_000004963003Small-82x54.jpg 82w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/iStock_000004963003Small-600x399.jpg 600w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/iStock_000004963003Small.jpg 849w" sizes="(max-width: 760px) 100vw, 760px" />
<p>Last week  I shared a post with my friends &#8211; including some of my expat neighbors, about the <a title="Iranian Happy Video article by Mashable" href="http://mashable.com/2014/05/20/iran-arrests-viral-happy-video/">people from Iran<span style="color: #ff6600;"><span style="color: #ff6600;"> that were arrested after they recorded their own “Happy” YouTube Video.</span></span></a></p>
<p>I shared it because I’ve been really caught up in the news in the past few weeks:</p>
<ul>
<li>News of mass abductions.</li>
<li>News of a death sentence for a woman who married outside of her absent father&#8217;s faith, that will be executed once her baby is weened.</li>
<li>News of others that have been arrested, beaten and jailed because of a stand they have taken.</li>
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<p>I shared it because the longer I live as an expat in a land that operates in many of the same ways as Iran, the more I sense a silent pressure building between our little trips outside of this country.<span id="more-2955"></span></p>
<p>I shared it because my heart hurt when I heard the story of young people trying to do something fun to celebrate the beauty of their country – only to come face to face with some of the reasons their land is often stereotyped.</p>
<p>I shared it because <a href="http://consultgiana.com/what-does-freedom-mean-to-you/">freedom</a> is a core value of mine.  And a cause my family members have given years of their lives to.  (A cause they have <span style="color: #ff6600;"><a href="http://consultgiana.com/you-cant-have-an-omelet-without-first-breaking-the-eggs/">been thanked for profusely</a><span style="color: #000000; background-color: #ffffff;">,</span></span> by those who have benefitted from their service.</p>
<p><strong>Bottom line&#8230;  I shared it from my own perspective. </strong></p>
<p><strong>My neighbor read it from her own heart and her own perspective. </strong></p>
<p>Each one of us brought our personal history and values and began commenting.   Before long we were engaged in a rich dialog about what freedom means.  (A discussion that has caused me to think deeply about  my core values, how I would rank them, when they are helpful  and should be acted on, and when they are disrespectful to others.)</p>
<p>Our social media conversation soon sparked the interest of others and expanded.</p>
<p>When the public discussion ended my neighbors and friends on the other side of the world had breathed life into <a title="How to end the &quot;blame game&quot; - a dream for change" href="http://smartblogs.com/leadership/2013/05/02/how-to-end-the-blame-game-a-dream-for-change/">a dream I shared in a SmartBlog post</a> over a year ago.</p>
<p>A dream I imagine everytime I see people and organizations and countries engaged in divisive conflicts.</p>
<p>Think for a minute about a hot topic that is dividing people you love, an organization you support, or a community you live in.  <em> </em></p>
<p>As soon as you&#8217;ve got it, imagine what would happen if&#8230;</p>
<ul>
<li><em>We would sit down at a table surrounded by diverse people and really listen?</em></li>
<li><em>We allowed others to share their stories and convictions unapologetically and with passion?</em></li>
<li><em>We left those conversations and examined our own hearts and motives?</em></li>
<li><em>We dived into world history to learn from the past?</em></li>
<li><em>We came back to the table to share what we’ve learned, deeply desiring to better understand?</em></li>
<li><em>We would sit at that table and intentionally look fear (and some squiggly things) in the face and begin to turn each one of those rocks over?</em></li>
</ul>
<p>Can you imagine what kind of creativity and energy we would unleash?</p>
<p>Or how many problems we could solve?</p>
<p>Or how many people we could bring together?</p>
<p>Those women just deepened my conviction that this dream is possible!</p>
<p><span style="font-size: 14pt;">I invite you to share the dream with me&#8230;  <a title="I DARE You To Be The Change You Want To See! " href="http://consultgiana.com/i-dare-you-to-be-the-change-you-want-to-see/">And be The Change, You Want To See!</a>  </span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size: 10pt;">Image credit:  iStock</span></p>
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