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		<dc:creator>Chery Gegelman</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[We’ve been back in the U.S. for nearly 6 weeks. Watching the divide we witnessed across the ocean.  Aching as it appears to be growing deeper and wider. I know I’m not alone in my concern for our country or in my desire to be a part of the solution. Several of my leadership connections have been [&#8230;]]]></description>
					<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We’ve been back in the U.S. for nearly 6 weeks. Watching the divide we witnessed across the ocean.  Aching as it appears to be growing deeper and wider.</p>
<p>I know I’m not alone in my concern for our country or in my desire to be a part of the solution. Several of my leadership connections have been sharing both struggles and wisdom in their blogs.</p>
<p>Alli Polin, Erin Schreyer, Steve Keating and Jesse Lyn Stoner have each written important articles to help us build bridges across that divide.</p>
<ul>
<li>Each of the image quotes below highlight something from their articles that I found especially powerful.</li>
<li>Each of their original articles are linked after each image through their name.</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>If you are struggling with the current state of our union &#8211; I encourage you to:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Read each one</li>
<li>Watch the Conversation Safari video at the end of this post</li>
</ul>
<h3><strong>And then make strategic choices to be the change you want to see</strong></h3>
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<p><a href="http://consultgiana.com/?attachment_id=5869#main" rel="attachment wp-att-5869"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-5869" src="http://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/When-youre-obsessed.png" alt=" When you’re obsessed, you keep digging for more proof of your position." width="800" height="800" srcset="https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/When-youre-obsessed.png 800w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/When-youre-obsessed-150x150.png 150w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/When-youre-obsessed-300x300.png 300w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/When-youre-obsessed-768x768.png 768w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/When-youre-obsessed-35x35.png 35w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/When-youre-obsessed-760x760.png 760w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/When-youre-obsessed-400x400.png 400w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/When-youre-obsessed-82x82.png 82w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/When-youre-obsessed-600x600.png 600w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/When-youre-obsessed-120x120.png 120w" sizes="(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>&#8220;When you’re obsessed, you keep digging for more proof of your position.</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>When you’re engaged, you join others to create meaningful change.&#8221; &#8211;<a href="http://breaktheframe.com/get-focused/">Alli Polin</a></strong></p>
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<p><a href="http://consultgiana.com/?attachment_id=5870#main" rel="attachment wp-att-5870"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-5870" src="http://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/No-one-can-make-you-hate.png" alt="No one can make you hate" width="800" height="800" srcset="https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/No-one-can-make-you-hate.png 800w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/No-one-can-make-you-hate-150x150.png 150w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/No-one-can-make-you-hate-300x300.png 300w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/No-one-can-make-you-hate-768x768.png 768w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/No-one-can-make-you-hate-35x35.png 35w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/No-one-can-make-you-hate-760x760.png 760w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/No-one-can-make-you-hate-400x400.png 400w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/No-one-can-make-you-hate-82x82.png 82w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/No-one-can-make-you-hate-600x600.png 600w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/No-one-can-make-you-hate-120x120.png 120w" sizes="(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>&#8220;Sorry folks but no one but you can make you hate.</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>No one but you can get you to stop hating.</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Until everyone, EVERYONE, accepts responsibility for their own emotions </strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>the hate will not only continue, it will grow.</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Hating a hater is still hate.” –<a href="https://stevekeating.me/2017/03/03/eliminating-hate/">Steve Keating</a></strong></p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><a href="http://consultgiana.com/?attachment_id=5871#main" rel="attachment wp-att-5871"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-5871" src="http://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/We-are-better-than-this.png" alt="We are better than this" width="800" height="800" srcset="https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/We-are-better-than-this.png 800w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/We-are-better-than-this-150x150.png 150w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/We-are-better-than-this-300x300.png 300w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/We-are-better-than-this-768x768.png 768w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/We-are-better-than-this-35x35.png 35w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/We-are-better-than-this-760x760.png 760w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/We-are-better-than-this-400x400.png 400w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/We-are-better-than-this-82x82.png 82w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/We-are-better-than-this-600x600.png 600w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/We-are-better-than-this-120x120.png 120w" sizes="(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px" /></a></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>&#8220;We are better than this. Better than what’s been happening.</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>We can be angry, but we shouldn’t be hateful.</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>We can disagree, but we should do so with respect.</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>We can speak our voices, but we should listen just as much as we talk.</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>…We must stop trying to defend our own perspective at all costs.” – <a href="http://erinschreyer.com/life/america-for-the-love/">Erin Schreyer</a></strong></p>
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<p><b><a href="http://consultgiana.com/?attachment_id=5872#main" rel="attachment wp-att-5872"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-5872" src="http://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/As-I-listened....png" alt="As I listened" width="800" height="800" srcset="https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/As-I-listened....png 800w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/As-I-listened...-150x150.png 150w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/As-I-listened...-300x300.png 300w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/As-I-listened...-768x768.png 768w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/As-I-listened...-35x35.png 35w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/As-I-listened...-760x760.png 760w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/As-I-listened...-400x400.png 400w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/As-I-listened...-82x82.png 82w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/As-I-listened...-600x600.png 600w, https://consultgiana.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/As-I-listened...-120x120.png 120w" sizes="(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px" /></a></b></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>&#8220;As I listened, I heard things I disagreed with and also things I agreed with.</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>I could understand why he sees things the way he does.</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>I saw that we share many of the same concerns, </strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>but don’t necessarily agree on what should be done about it.</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>I saw we were in agreement on several important issues.</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>And I heard some things that caused me to reconsider some of my own beliefs.&#8221; –<a href="http://buff.ly/2l8xsE5">Jesse Lyn Stoner</a></strong></p>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;">All of their posts emphasize why I starting hosting Conversation Safari&#8217;s</h3>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">Instead of divisive debates people are learning how to have</h3>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">Real dialogues that feel like adventures.</h3>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">Learn more here:</h3>
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